Tuesday, July 03, 2007

Dentist Day!

Due to the fact that Alex has dealt with many sensory sensitivities, I have put off taking him to the dentist for too long. Today was the day, his first dentist visit! I chose a children's dentist where they allow parents to accompany their children during proceedures, and who specialize in working with children with special needs. (I was surprised at the amount of dentists around here that do NOT allow parents past the waiting room.) We were familiar with this dental office as my sister had worked there previously and the office staff are great and still remember us. Sarah has been previously a few times, but has never had a cleaning. So, today both of the kids got x-rays, an exam, and a cleaning. The staff had the kids laughing and made them feel so comfortable. Both of them did wonderful, but I was especially proud of Alex as this shows how much progress he's made dealing with his sensory problems.

If you're wondering what those sensory "problems" are that I am talking about, let me briefly explain. Many touches, sounds, and even things Alex would see, would affect him more extremely than would be expected to be normal. Such as, certain sounds would make him cover his ears. He would even cover his ears when he saw something he didn't like, and scream. He has been an extremely picky eater due to texture preference and also had a difficult time having his hands dirty and was obsessed with hand-washing. So, to imagine someone getting Alex to comfortably lie down, open his mouth and stick cleaning utensils inside of it, along with the minty paste and flouride used during the cleaning... we have PROGRESS here! He does have a strong gag-reflex and I had to warn the nurses, but he did great.

I am happy to report that BOTH kids had healthy teeth with NO CAVITIES! Alex also has two loose front bottom teeth which will be out any day now. He is so excited and can't wait to go to the dollar store and spend his 'tooth fairy' money!

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

Well, I just read this blog after sending you that message on MySpace about sensory issues. ha!

Anyway, WAY TO GO Alex!!!
Sounds like he did great!

You know, I recently took Chloe and Caden both to the dentist for Cleaning and they both cried and did a bit of screaming...but Chloe cried more than Caden. Anyway, both children were in the same room on beds next to each other...one waiting for the other. Anyway, at the end, they gave Caden a prize for being good and Chloe wanted one so we asked if she could have one as well and the snooty nurse's reply was, "Well, we usually only give them for GOOD behavior...but we leave it up to the parents...do you think she deserves one?"

I was so angry I was speechless and just nodded yes. How do they expect a little girl who is scared out of her mind not to cry? And furthermore, what on earth would posses them to think she'll want to return again the next time if she doesn't even get a prize when they hand them out right in front of her to her brother who cried just like she did!?!?! GRRRRRRrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.

Sorry for the rant!

I'm proud of Alex! What did he decide on at the dollar store?

MB said...

With a son of my own with Apraxia, I know how difficult going to the dentist can be! I always make sure to get a "surprise" toy for him to have when things get unbearable for him. I open it as he is getting the dental work done. It distracts him and allows the dentist to get the work done.

I love your blog! Even though we have never met, I feel like you are going through exactly some of the things our family is going through.

Anonymous said...

Hi! It was great to read your blog - and thanks for the links! My son has Apraxia and will be starting kindergarten this fall. I'm a little nervous since he has been going to the town public school pre-school but I decided to enroll him in a private school...he will still receive his speech services from the same person as this past year but I wanted him to receive the same type eductation as his older siblings. Unfortunately even though his Speech therapist is wonderful, I haven't had a "comfortable" feeling with his preschool teacher or the kindergarten teachers at the public school. We've learned to take each day at a time and tell everyone that our son comes first to us vs. what the schools may say....anyway sorry for rambling...I was just excited to read about someone with a boy my son's age that will be going through the same things at the same time....

Anonymous said...

Dear Susan,

I just stumbled across your blog tonight and am so very glad I did! I've been playing catch-up by skimming through some of your first posts (I think I left off around May '05) and am very impressed by your faith and persistance in dealing with everything.

Our middle son, Tommy (he turns 3 next month), was diagnosed with apraxia several months ago and has been doing very well in private therapy. When reading about all the trials early on when Alex was in group, it made me extremely thankful to get an early diagnosis and therapy without any hurdles (so far!).

I look forward to reading more and checking in to see Alex's progress. It's so helpful to find someone who's "been there, done that" a couple years ahead of us.

God's blessings to you and your family!

Jill

Elizabeth Cull said...

The first visit to the dentist can sometimes influence a child's attitude towards future dentist appointments. You are lucky you found a child-friendly dental clinic at first try.